What you need or what you focus on is something you really have to be sure about. You are the one who is going to put the effort into it so that you could make it happen. But if you are not certain about your center of attention (or something you are trying to attain) all the hard work ain’t gonna pay off. You would be wasting your energy on unnecessary things and will exhaust yourself.
If you are in dire need to get somewhere, the first thing you got to think about is, where your focus should be on and be dead-set to attain it.
No matter what comes in your way don’t let it to get into your head and distract you. Remember you are the one who controls you, no one can manipulate you unless you let them to.